DISCLAIMER: The Lord knows and you all know that I am not perfect. Please take these words that I write as a loving servant, a caring brother of you all.
I have been a member of ‘thefacebook’ community for more than a year and have enjoyed the fact I was able to keep in contact with friends that I have lost contact with or that I was able to keep in touch with people I have recently met. However in the recent times, I have been quite disturbed by what I have been seeing in peoples’ profiles.
To see the young smart, beautiful young men and women who I see teaching Sunday School or helping to lead a group discussion at a Retreat or Praise & Worship at some Spiritual Activity or who is seen as a mentor or ‘big brother/big sister’ in their local church community to more than 100 kids, doing things that would never cross my mind in a thousand years when I spend time with them at a church, retreat, or some Orthodox Fellowship on campus.
My brothers and sisters, what are we doing to ourselves? I can understand we are free from the grasp of our parents, but does it necessarily mean to act irresponsibly? Does it necessarily mean we need to toss our vocation or who we are called to be, a CHRISTIAN, in the back seat and throw it back on when Sunday rolls around? Is it okay to parade around drunk? NO! Is it okay to ‘grab’ the opposite sexes body parts (use your imagination) either before or after drinking? NO! Is it okay to ‘hook up’ with random guy/girls one night and disregard any relation we had with them the day or week after? NO!
I can understand we all want to have fun in College, and I say NO DOUBT! Have fun! But must we have fun at the expense of who we are? A Christian. Christianity, as we all know, is a way of life, not something we take up on the weekends and forget about on Thursday & Friday.
I made mistakes in college; Lord knows I lived as a mistake in college, an ultimate screw up. But I do not want to see others make that same mistake.
My heart grieves, it truly does, I do not know what more to say, but I will leave with this. When we are on the off days from college and we are in Church and come before the Chalice which contains the Life-Giving Body & Blood of our Lord & Savior Jesus Christ, I ask you to listen to the words of what the Priest says before giving the Holy Elements.
He says: “The atoning fiery-coal of the Body and Blood of Christ our God is given to this faithful believer for the remission of debts and for the forgiveness of sins, in both worlds forever”. The key words are FIERY (burning) COAL. Fire or heat has the power to burn you and the power to mold you (like the dude that makes glass vases on PBS).
You may disregard what I have to say, but do not disregard what the Body & Blood of Christ says by coming to the Chalice in an unworthy fashion. St. Paul warns us about this “Therefore, whoever eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty of sinning against the body and blood of the Lord.” He again says, “A man ought to examine himself before he eats of the bread and drinks of the cup. For anyone who eats and drinks without recognizing the body of the Lord eats and drinks judgment on himself.”
If you would like to talk, please feel free to message me back.
Love & Prayers,
Dennis Mathai
Secretary for the
Department of Campus Ministry